A Journey Through Transformation
Odette
Plot twists are challenging, especially when they come during good times. They can leave you feeling overwhelmed and defeated as if you're fighting a losing battle. But regardless of how you react, plot twists always force us to shift and transition in our lives. They may require us to do more than simply pray and be silent for the weekend. We may need to take action, make difficult choices, take a step back from the "world," and learn to adapt to new circumstances. But ultimately, plot twists can also be opportunities for growth and transformation.
Over the past few weeks, I've learned that it's essential to acknowledge that you're going through a life transition and accept that it's time to enter a new phase or level, which will require preparation. This preparation, or "pre-game," is about developing yourself, learning more about yourself, and nurturing aspects of your life that may need attention. It's also about stepping away from distractions and focusing on what God has bestowed upon you that now needs to come to the forefront. Sometimes, we want to throw tantrums and direct our anger at the wrong people. But we can't keep doing that. I understand how difficult it can be when things happen suddenly and we go into panic mode. We start questioning things, rearranging plans, drinking too much wine (personally, if I wasn't living at home with my family…nvm), and freaking out. But here's the thing: we're not alone. We all go through transitions in life. And while they can be difficult, they're also opportunities for growth and transformation. So next time you transition, remember to acknowledge it, accept it, and use it as an opportunity to prepare for the next season or level of your life.
Don't act on your human emotions, even though it's natural. I know I do it sometimes, but it's best to take a deep breath, release all the tension, look up to the heavens, and say, "Okay, I got this." Let the tears fall if needed, but then pull yourself together. It's easier said than done, I know. But trust me, you're stronger than you think (cliché thing to say…I hate hearing it too). You will not be defeated! Sure, the shift and development you're going through will be difficult and painful. You'll feel the storm raging around you. But you must have a mindset of determination. Please don't get me wrong; sometimes, you just have to raise hell, but don't forget to breathe. Occasionally, we say, "The Devil is busy." Bahamian people especially! But the truth is, sometimes it's the Almighty Father. He's testing us & preparing us. So don't give up. Don't let the storm break you. Instead, use it to fuel your determination. You are strong. You are resilient. And you WILL get through this.
To summarize: The journey of transformation is painful, but pain is the driving force behind development in our lives. It is the kind of pain that helps us grow and develop. You cannot deliver without development; pain is a sign of growth. Therefore, during this shift, it is essential to isolate for a while, not just for two days. This is not just to be by yourself but to take time and really figure out what you may want, realign yourself with the things that matter most, and take a step back from your vision because your vision may not be what God has for you. It is also essential to get away from the world, which is loud and noisy. Sometimes, you need silence for yourself and to hear God's voice.
“Something Good is about to happen; Stay ready so you don’t have to get ready! ”
